I've
been wanting to type down the story of the birth of my child for weeks
now...I don't want to forget a thing..I want to be able to tell him one
day how it all happened! Sorry, this post is a bit long :)
I
believe it was about two weeks before my due date, it was decided that I
would stay up in PA with my parents. Mr. Southbay was working extremely
long hours and at times, it was very difficult to get a hold of him.
Anxiety was rising... and being alone all day didn't help the situation.
Soon as the decision was made to move up with my parents..and deliver
in Harrisburg about 75% of that anxiety went away. I already
established doctors up there that I was very comfortable working
with..Fast forward two weeks and Mr. Southbay came up as well
permanently till after the baby was born. We went to my OB appointment
on Monday, 1 day after my due date. I was only 1 cm dilated and the
distress test came back fine. The OB did a membrane scrape that visit..
All
night Tuesday I was cramping. In fact, it was hard to sleep. Ha, I even
Googled it the next morning, "Cramping sign of labor." I did a lot of
Google... Could this be it? Then, around 10am the cramping kinda came
and went. I even timed it...they were getting more intense. So, I
called Mr. Southbay (who was in my parents office working) and had him
come in right away! We tried timing them but they were not very regular.
He called the OB around 11am and we had an appointment at 1:00. I
remember telling him I didn't want to be that person who goes to the
hospital and then is sent home.. :) Well, on the way to the OB office
the contractions were coming A LOT stronger and only around the lower
back. They went from 5 to 3 minutes apart.. I couldn't believe it was
happening! Mr. Southbay dropped me off at the door and I headed in. I
couldn't believe I had to wait! I was sitting there in pain..I was not
happy about this part.. They new I was coming in. Well, soon as I was
taken back 10mins later... the midwife took a look and said, "You are
having a baby!" From there they sent me to the hospital. We phoned our
parents!
The
hospital was only 15mins away which was good! I laugh when I think
about this part of the story... Mr. Southbay missed the entrance :) and
since all the roads are just about one way.. we had to go all the way
around again :) I actually had to keep him calm! Then, once we pulled in
the valet guy was no where in sight. I told him to just drop me off,
I'll find my way. As I'm walking in two hospital staff see me hunched
over and help me in. Then, as I look up my Priest is standing right in
front of me. I couldn't believe it! It's funny how things happen.. He
pushed me up to labor & delivery and said a prayer for me and my
child. It brought tears to my eyes, I don't think he really realized how
much strength he gave me at that moment. Within minutes Mr. Southbay
arrived.
The
unit was incredibly busy. In fact there were no room available and
several of us ladies had to be put in the "observation" room. I was on
all fours trying to deal with the contractions. Then on my side... just
trying to figure out the best position. After several hours of waiting
for a room..I was finally taken to our room and within minutes the
anesthesiologist walked in ready for my epideral. I was shaking..and
just could stop! It was kinda funny.. I was actually doing good...but
just couldn't stop shaking..they said its normal.. That evening..up thru
the night I slept as much as I could. They kept coming in and checking
on me around the clock..then the Dr. said, "Go ahead and start, call me
when you need me." So, we began.. I think it was about three hours later
the OB walked in and out came my baby.
Then
Mr. Southbay cut the cord! As you already know Andrew wasn't breathing
properly so they took him to the NICU and 5 days later he was home with us!
Looking back on that day..I feel so proud of myself that I gave birth
to my adorable little guy. I just kept visualizing him coming out and
did a lot of deep breathing. I was definitely in my own zone!
It's
pretty amazing... the experience of being pregnant...giving birth and
then seeing your son or daughter for the first time...WOW!